POLOWANIE NA M.

"LIDA"

Kolejna śnieżyca na dworze,luty,tęga zima w tym roku.W ciepłym mieszkaniu otwieram pocztę elektroniczną,jest,przeszedł bariery antyspamowe list przedstawiający Lidię .Cóż w tym podejrzanego?Wtedy nie,ale teraz tak.

Dziękuję za zainteresowanie moją osobą i dostrzeżenie tego co zajęło mi trochę czasu. Nie wiem jaką wartość przedstawiam i nie będę się nad tym zastanawiał.Przedstawię tą historię w celach dydaktycznych-ciągłe doskonalenie itp.

Cóż było odpowiedzieć na taki list ? Komplement - You are beautiful - spowodował szybką i nieoczekiwaną reakcję.Przy listach podaję daty,dla przedstawienia dynamiki znajomości.

E-mail numer 1 ,21.02.2010 :

"Hello my dear friend M...!!!

Thanks a lot for your answer. I'm really happy. Well, I guess, my letter was a bit unexpected for you and maybe you were surprised. Frankly speaking for me all this is extraordinary, it is the first time I've come to the Internet café and used the Internet to meet a man. Well, I'm a little confused and even do not know what to start with.

As I have already said I've never used this means of communication before. When I saw your profile, I decided to write you as you are a handsome man. But I really didn't expect that you would answer.

And now a few words about me. Well, my name is Lidiya, it is my full name, but my friends call me just Lida. They say I'm a kind and generous person. I'm also a religious woman and go to church regularly. As you know, I'm 32. I used to be married but my husband died 3 years ago and now I live just with my dad I'm quite a tall woman (170 sm) and weighs 55 kg. I was born on the first of June, 1976. I am Twins. And as it is the beginning of summer, I like when it is warm outside and all is green.

My favourite colour is red. I like tulips very much. These flowers are associated with spring and sun. They usually bloom in March. Like many women I also like roses.

I can call myself a backwoodsman as I was born in a far away ... city ... . To be more exact in a village nearby but after some time my parents decided to move to the city. After finishing the school I studied in State Pedagogical University at the faculty of History. At first I worked as a teacher in a school but for the last 4 years I've been working in a library. Though I do not earn a lot, I enjoy this job greatly. Sometimes I've got a chance to have some extra work, e.g. give some private lessons at home, and prepare students to exams and entering to some Institutions. However it is quite hard to combine all this as I work 5-6 days a week and from time to time I have to take some work home. Besides we've got a lot of extra events at work such as exhibitions, open classes, meeting with writers, poets and painters.

Well, I hope you are not bored reading all this. What else can I tell you?

As for my hobbies I'm fond of cooking very much. I'm really good at it and can imagine a great number of recipes. It is only necessary to have some free time, a lot of products and then I can cook a magnificent meal.

Well, I guess that is all in short. It is a very serious step in my life as I decided to get acquainted with a man, write him first and do all this with the help of the Internet. I just wanted to find my good fortune here. Anyway nothing ventured, nothing gained.

I just want you to know that I'm a very serious person and I'm not playing any games. I'm an educated middle aged woman and want to find a real man. It doesn't matter how old he is, whether he is rich or not, the most important thing is to love and respect each other and all left can be gained together. Besides that is not important where he lives as I will come to him anywhere if I feel that he really needs me. However I've never been to other countries but do believe there can't be any obstacles for a real love. Maybe I'm naive and still believe in love. But I am sure I'll be happy.

Dear, M... I will look forward to getting your letter. Could you write me about yourself, your family, traditions, where you live, what countries you visited and what you know about ... .

So, wish you all the best.

Take care.

Regards, your new friend from ..., Lidia! "

E - mail numer 2 , 22.02.2010 :

"Hello my dear friend M... !

I'm so glad to get your answer. And it is really fascinating for me to read your letters and learn about you more and more. I was sure that you are a very interesting person to talk to and a good friend as well.

I'm happy to know that it is a pleasure for you to speak with me. I want to say a lot about myself and to know much about you as well. Unfortunately I can't write long letters to you. The reason is that I have to use the Internet cafe that is quite far from the library I work in. We do not have a computer at home as we can't afford it (it is expensive). That's why I can't use the Internet often and have to write you from this cafe. It is not very convenient but still as I like speaking with you so much it's ok to spend some of my free time. Dear, I should also let you know that I won't be able to write on Sundays because the internet cafe doesn't work this day. It is quite expensive for me to spend an hour here therefore just ask you to pardon me. Anyway I will try to answer you letters at once. I write very quickly, so if there are some mistakes, do not be angry, please.

I do know English and can speak and write in it. I learnt this language at school and at Uni. It was for a long time. I hope you understand all and I try to correct mistakes if I make some. Could you write more about yourself in the next letter? You see I want to learn as much as possible about you. It is very important for me to make friends with you. Well, how do you do on the whole? Do you have children? Were you married? What is the weather like in a place you live? Please, write about your city and everything you are interested in. As for me, I do not have my own flat in ... . It is my father's with whom I live now. My mother died 6 years ago. It is hard to speak about it but God took away all dearest people from me. My mother was wrongly operated on and she passed away. She was the best woman in the world, the best friend and the best mummy.

As for my husband, he was a military man. We had been living with him for 3 years but then he got in a road accident and died. Frankly speaking I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to live after all this. First mother, then he. But life goes on. Anyway my husband was the one and only for me. And all others are moral monsters except my dad, of course. Well, I guess it is not necessary to write you about addicted Russian men and their bad habits. Let's drop this subject and do not come back to it. It is hard for me. I thought I was a failure ... my dad saw how sad I was, I didn't eat and drink ... and just a year ago I realized that I should go on living and I should be happy. I used to pass my time at work, reading or doing some housework. I even almost didn't go out.

My best friend could help me. She just took me out of this rut and put me on my feet. Now just my dad and I are left and we support each other in difficult situations.

Thanks to my friend I decided to write you. She said that it is impossible to find anything in this country and more evident even to lose more. Her acquaintance has recently come to Russia and she is extremely happy being married to a foreigner. And I realized it is that very thing I'm looking for. So, this is the story how I got to know you.

As I've already told you I'm fond of cooking, especially at holidays. And my favourite holiday is my birthday. All my best friends come to me and we have a party up to the morning. You know that it is on the first of June (the first day of summer) and it is usually warm outside.

My favourite dish that I like to cook and eat, of course, is chicken with spicy sauce. I usually serve it with baked potatoes and cheese. I'm also crazy about sweets, cakes, tarts and pies with fruit filling. Though I like pies on the whole, still prefer fruit ones.

My hobby is collecting fridge magnets where different cities are shown. My friends usually bring them to me from various places and my fridge is already full of them. Anyway I like them a lot and some of them are very dear to me. I also have a great collection of ancient books; it is the pride of my family. Tell me, please, about your belief. Do you believe in God on the whole? What traditions and canons do you have Mieczyslaw? My family is religious, we are Christians. We go to church on holidays. My city is full of beautiful old and modern churches. So to say it is a city-museum. Though many monasteries and temples do not work now, I like to come there as it is really very nice and relaxing.

My city, ..., is 320 km north-east from Moscow, capital of Russia. It is also not far from a well-known city Vladimir. My city is very beautiful. It seems that time has just stopped in it. If you want I will send you some pictures.

Well, I'll have to finish writing. I want to know you so much as there are so many things that are unknown to me. Write me about everything. I will also try to speak about all you are interested in. I'm looking forward to your answer. God bless you. All the best.

Best regards.

Your Lida. "

E-mail numer 3 ,23.02.2010 :

"Greetings the my dear friend.

How at you business and health?

At me all is fine! Many thanks for your answer to my last letter, it, are very wonderful, that we write each other. I read your letters with the great pleasure and all I learn you more close. What you oh the remarkable, clever, good and decent person!

I very much would like you to ask: what you the person or, is more exact to what type of people you concern? I, for example the present romanticist! The choleric person, the optimist and during too time the realist. I will tell to you about the hobbies. And from you I would like to learn mutually too about your hobby, about a free time where you spend him? I have one more absolutely unusual hobby. I collect the dreams. I write down them in a special writing-book of dreams. Dreams from my writing-book is not any senseless alternation of pictures and sounds, and the present histories! More likely, similar to a fairy tale I even give to all written down dreams names!

What to you to tell about itself?! At all I do not know. About work to tell boringly. There one books, newspapers, magazines. As you sit down a desktop, all thoughts on a real life are disconnected. Sometimes even among books and racks I am forgotten about time and day flies by as an instant. And sometimes on the contrary day lasts so long, that it seems it would be desirable to dump all books from shelves and to start to put them anew on regiments. If only only in something to be engaged. Wages at me completely not big. If to combine, for two my works I receive about eight thousand roubles a month. It is not enough, but as I for a life suffice one me. Certainly, it would be desirable to receive more, it would be desirable to buy to itself beautiful clothes, cosmetics. As well as any young beautiful woman. To have to refuse in something to itself, on something to save then to buy something expensive of clothes. At me very good taste. And if to me in a head any thing sinks down, I am obligatory its purchase. From work I try to spend it to free time on the nature. For me fresh air and the nature, it is not dependent on a season, pledge of my health and beauty. I like to go to pool. With my girlfriend, it works as the waitress, at us cafe about library we sometimes get out on an hour per pool, then in the same place we are engaged in a sports hall a little. After all I the woman young beautiful and I wish to look well always.

Very much I wish to learn to skate. Always when I watch on figure skaters on TV, heart fades. I was born in settlement, only then we with parents have moved to a city when I began to go to school and my parents did not have a possibility to buy to me the fads. And to study to go for a drive to us there was no place. At us the most widespread kinds of sports in settlement it is skis

But I am grateful for that that my parents have educated me! They always spoke - that each person - should be rich with soul first of all! And material assets, things which are not so important in a life. They have been brought up in days of ... when was the opinion was freedom, there was only a party and opinion of totalitarian heads! Now we live in other state where all on another,

It is a lot of desires, but it is not enough possibilities! In a city and furthermore now possibility has more. In the settlement where I was born! I happen seldom, there at us with the daddy a garden site but after there was no mum we there we happen seldom. There very beautiful nature at all times year, sometimes with friends we leave there on picnic. All is pleasant to me in my city. It is my native earth and to me here all like is good, but only there is no person. The favourite person, my significant other. The kind strong person who will care is necessary to me, and to love me. Which will appreciate that I do. I cannot meet more than such person in my city.

I at all do not know, how to you all it to tell. It it is possible to tell, a sick theme for me. I strongly was disappointed in our Russian men. You are not similar with all to those men who to me should be met in my life. And you are completely not similar to men who occupy our country. At least, the big part from them simply bad people and alcoholics. It is still very softly told. It would not be desirable to write to you about sad, but it, unfortunately, the bitter truth. Our man's population if still it is possible so to name it, dies out. Especially in villages and settlements. In their cities still work somehow holds. And in settlement there is not enough the work, therefore very many drink. Especially, now with the world crisis, very many people throw out on street, reduce workplaces. Is, certainly rich men, businessmen, but at them not on one wife and those too especially are not strongly necessary to them. I want for myself other happiness. Normal, human. That I could care and that my favourite cared of me. Instead of to look after the alcoholic. After death of the husband I tried to strike up once acquaintance, but that man was rough not brought up, and not having been in time at all to start to communicate with it I have understood that it not that that I search. And very cautiously I concern all men. I did not get acquainted hundred years with anybody from men. I communicate with them only as with fellow workers or with husbands of my girlfriends. I trust you in all. I do not know why, but I can tell to you all my thoughts and open the heart that I did not do very much for a long time. I see and I feel, that you very good person. And consequently I wish to try to meet my significant other here. I see, that you very kind person. I feel you through your letters, through words which you speak me.

I would like to learn better and more close about you. I would like to see more photos. It is interesting to me to learn any you inside and outwardly. It is very important for me. I really trust in our friendship and not in which case I do not wish it to lose.

I will finish the letter. At me today it is a lot of work and it is time to me to run. I will wait very much your letter. I say goodbye to you.

Yours Lyuda!"

E-mail numer 4 ,01.03.2010 :

"Greetings the my dear friend M...!

I am very glad to write to you today! For me it is the big pleasure!!!

How you? How are you doing? All still work occupies the majority of my time from me.

I wish to tell to you about the city in which I have grown. What it was also what it became now.

In our city many different sights. Many higher educational institutions. It is a lot of libraries. But our greatest.

In our city the set very known at us in ... of films has been removed. And in general our city very beautiful, many green plantings, parks. There are artificial ponds where there live swans. Where it is possible to descend and have a rest. To sit in any coffee house and to relax, look at a beautiful landscape and to dream.

Well it is final, as well as in many cities of Russia is at a city and a problem, such as many factories and factories are closed, roads are not repaired, and there is no illumination in streets, but it, unfortunately, a trouble not only our city, but also all country!

Still I very much wish to learn about your hobbies, interests. You listen to what music, whether visit theatres and concerts? What films most of all prefer to look. And I will write to you about the hobbies. I do not have any special hobby as I take a great interest very many, all depends on my mood, during this or that moment of a life. I at all do not represent the life without music. It takes the important and significant place in my life. I very much like to listen to classical music. I like Chopin, Grieg, Beethoven, Bach, Mozart and others. Many different things like at different composers.

I cannot tell, that I listen only to any certain music, it is pleasant to me in many directions if it is written talently enough. Here for example, fate an opera ŤJesus Christ the super starť, has so strongly affected my emotional world, on my heart, that I could not listen except these arias, something to another.

Speaking about dancing music, at me too many favourite executors, the truth, I seldom somewhere get out to dance. That it is possible to hear by radio, or somewhere in cafe. In the childhood I was engaged in classical dances!

Like all hits the priest of music is listened. Happens so, that this or that song happens, is connected from any moments of my life. If to me it is bad and nasty on a shower and I hear any song, it then will remind all time to me of this episode from a life and its mood. Such songs as smells work is associative.

I like to listen to Grigory Lepsa, Vladimir Kuzmin, Alexander Vasileva (splin), Vladimir Vysotsky and many other things about which you for certain even could not hear. From foreign executors, I prefer: Era, Chackie Ray Harrelson, Joe Dosen, , and many other things, now even all and not to remember.

I like to listen on work to retro radio. And sometimes even a chanson. I love executions. Well, that is, author's songs At us in library such evenings when students with the friends gather are sometimes spent and sing under a guitar the songs. So to say days songs. I was late once on work and have listened to these songs. They have touched me to depth of soul. To me such lines "This woman I were remembered searched, and it somewhere nearby went" or here it "We stole happiness from others to present it each other". They have moved me to tears! Happens even so.

And what do you think of art? Not only to painting and to the fine arts, and as a whole, to all kinds of creativity of the person? I cannot live without art, this such fine that for a long time already does not get in our grey days.

In free days I try to descend and receive a charge of positive emotions somewhere. Whether it be theatre, a museum or exhibitions. For me it not an essence important, the main thing, that it bears in itself good mood! I very much love theatre and cinema. I can not tell, that I look everything, but I try To me for work often bring invitation and tickets, and I go. I have many favourite films.

This one more of my hobbies and weak places - cinema! Cinema, cinema. Yes, many favourite films and actors, what even the whole letter will not suffice, that all to list. Here, for example, such as "Leon", "the Tango three together", "Between heaven and earth" and others. I am assured, the whole letter will not suffice to write all films favourite by me. As to TV and the TV so I it almost do not see. So it is occupied on work and when I come from work already that good on the TV except headline news do not show.

Whether you trust in the present love or all only at passion level? I trust in the present love and I search only for serious relations! I have forgotten to tell absolutely to you in the beginning of the letter have told to the daddy, that here some days as I am familiar with such remarkable person, you. That we have got acquainted on the Internet and here now we correspond. It has very validly concerned my choice and is glad for our dialogue and friendship. It transfers you greetings. The daddy at me very good person and for it the most important happiness, this happiness of his daughter.

It would be desirable you so much to tell about it. But, apparently, that for these some letters I already well know you, your family, and you mine. And as though we are familiar already whole life. You have somehow entered smoothly into my life and became very much to the family the friend. In my family it was always accepted to spend all holidays together. And how at you?

And in general already it is time to run. On it I say goodbye to you. I ask you answer all my questions, it is very important for me. Well I think, that already it is time to me to run. I and so already have sat up here. Good-bye, the my dear friend! Write to me I will wait!!! Also answer all my questions!

While yours Lyuda. "

E-mail numer 5 ,06.03.2010 :

"Greetings my long-awaited M... .

I am glad to write to you today. By the way, I the daddy ask about you all time, how you? How we communicate? All time joke, that as though we already present pair. But about ours with you dialogue I know only two most persons close mine is a daddy and my girlfriend Oksana.

When I receive your letters and I write you the answer. I represent, that I see you and as though I talk to you. When bad weather or bad mood, your letters help to live and I forget about all bad. To me it becomes warm from your words, I smile and I fly all the day the happy!

Many fellow workers began to notice in me changes that there was absolutely another, to the best. But they also do not suspect what to be created with me. In my head and in my soul.

I think, that it will be much better if less people will know about ours with you dialogue. Because at us in Russia say, that the less envious people knows about your happiness, the you will be happier. Therefore I do not tell to anybody about you. Whether you tell to the friends about us?

As you know about that that we communicate with you I know only two persons, my daddy and my best girlfriend. I have told to my best girlfriend Oksana that I am on friendly terms and I communicate with one remarkable and decent man. And she to me has told, that when I to it told about you and how we communicate.

That these changes and dialogue with you have gone to me on advantage. I went sad, all in the books, affairs, the head all time has been occupied by work. Whom did not notice except work, and now any secret friend could change my life and to change the relation to men. Before acquaintance to you I even to hear about them wanted. It was sick and opposite to me to think of someone except my husband, but there is a life proceeds.

Time really treats all. Certainly, there are scars on heart, know on the work I communicate with many the woman and they tell about the awful husbands, but very much it would be desirable to trust, what not all such bad. That is, there were still good people, let even on other to end of the earth. Yes tomorrow at my girlfriend Day of the Birth. She studied together with me at institute, and has then left to Moscow, as well as the majority of my friends and acquaintances. I will send it a congratulatory card!! Here very few people remains. All go to build the life in the big cities. Here it is possible to tell, despite all beauty, to do youth at all that. Both work is not present, and a family with anybody will not construct. Oksana my very close girlfriend was and is.

But, unfortunately, this evening will be for me little bit sad as I will be one. As it is a pity, as you too are not present near to me. I would acquaint you with my friends and with the daddy.

By the way speaking, my daddy call Anatoliy Aleksandrovich. To it now 59 years and it on pension, it any more does not work.

And my best girlfriend is called Oksana and to it by 44 years. All of them very good people. I do not know with what it it is connected, but throughout all my life my girlfriend was to me the best. We are on friendly terms with it since the childhood, from school, Institute. Though it was always more senior for me, but all the same we kept our dialogue! I Adore the nature. I like all seasons. As I to you already told, that spring I love. But also summer I too very much love. Though at all times year there are hobbies. There would be a mood, and to think up as, where and when it is possible always.

Here and we always find for ourselves entertainments on the nature. As I told about our settlement. There it is simply fantastic. Remarkable vacation spot. That mushrooms with berries we collect. And then we do with the daddy of preparation for the winter. Both wood and a field and the river and all in one place, all nearby.

With friends it is arranged to itself different competitions, cheerful starts. We bathe, cheerfully we spend time. I very much like to float. And when you will swim for a while, always good appetite.

And here we with girlfriends cook to an ear from fish which children catch in our river. Also we fry from meat and fish a shish kebab. It is very tasty. When I was small, parents two times took me in rest on the big Russian river - Volga. To me these memoirs are very expensive. It was not forgotten vacation for all our family. I remember, that to mum of a distance of the permit in sanatorium on Volga, and we lived there two weeks. It is the river as if the sea for the ... person, and how many health it gives to people. Already you will not go. To earn on rest with our wages it is necessary to save the whole year and is nothing. Therefore the majority of people does not have such possibility to go to have a rest.

I will think of you all the day long and to miss. You awake in my thoughts, and to me it will be easier!

I dream of that you have made me the happiest person on the earth. But for this purpose we should be together, I hope that it will be possible in the future! I very long searched for the happiness.

Promise to me, that we will be together! Promise to me, that awake to think of me every day! I will wait your letters.

With the best regards!!!

For ever yours Lyuda!. "

Uff ,niezłe tempo.Nie będę zwracał uwagi na drobne potknięcia oraz siostrę bliźniaczkę (to ona ponosi odpowiedzialność !)

With the best regards

M.